Using Non-Verbal Communication

Using non-verbal communication is like speaking without saying a word—and it’s often more powerful than what we actually say out loud. Facial expressions, eye contact, gestures, posture, and even tone of voice all send messages that can support (or sabotage) what we’re trying to communicate.

In a homeschool setting, a warm smile can encourage a hesitant learner, while crossed arms or a raised eyebrow might signal disapproval without a single word. Being aware of our non-verbal cues helps us create a welcoming, emotionally safe environment, and it also teaches students to read social cues and respond with empathy. After all, sometimes it’s not what you say—it’s how you look while saying it.

Avoid Aggressive Eye Contact

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Soft eye contact shows respect and reduces intimidation. Tips Maintain soft eye contact and avoid staring or glaring.

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Keep Your Hands Visible

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Visible hands signal openness and non-aggression. Tips Avoid hiding your hands in your pockets or crossing your arms.

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Match their Pace

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Mirroring behavior helps build rapport and fosters trust Tips Adjust your movements or speech to match theirs, while staying...

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Nod to Show Understanding

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Validates their feelings and encourages continued communication. Tips Subtly nod when they speak to indicate that you are...

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Respect Personal Space

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Preserve a sense of safety and prevent feelings of intrusion. Tips Avoid leaning in or standing too close unless absolutely...

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Slow Down Your Movements

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Slow movements signal control and calmness, helping to de-escalate tension. Tips Move deliberately and avoid fast or sudden...

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Stay Relaxed in Posture

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication A relaxed posture helps set the tone for interaction. Tips Avoid rigid stances or overcompensating with exaggerated...

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Use Calming Signals

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Shows interest and engagement without aggression. Tips If sitting, lean slightly forward and keep an inviting...

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Use Neutral Facial Expressions

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication A calm expression helps the other person feel less judged or threatened. Tips Keep your face relaxed and avoid showing anger or...

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Use Open Gestures

Activities: Using Non-Verbal Communication Conveys a willingness to engage and reduces perceived threat. Tips Keep palms up or at your sides to show openness and...

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