Dealing with Aggressive Behavior
Aggressive behavior can be alarming, but it’s often a signal—not just a symptom. Whether it’s hitting, yelling, or throwing things, the goal is to stay calm and respond, not react.
First, ensure safety for everyone involved. Then, look beneath the surface: Is the learner overwhelmed, scared, or unable to express their needs?
Address the root cause with empathy, not punishment. Set clear boundaries, but also offer support—think calming strategies, safe spaces, or time to cool down. With consistency and care, you can help them learn healthier ways to cope and communicate.
Acknowledge their Frustration
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Validates their emotions and shows you're on their side. Tips Say, 'I can see you're upset: let's work through this...
Avoid Arguing or Blaming
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Keeps the focus on de-escalating rather than escalating the conflict. Tips Refrain from using phrases that could provoke...
Avoid Physical Touch
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Prevents further escalation or misunderstanding of intentions. Tips Do not touch them unless absolutely necessary and...
Encourage a Safe Outlet
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Allows them to express anger in a non-harmful way. Tips Suggest a safe way to release aggression, like punching a pillow or...
Give them Space
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Reduces feelings of being threatened or trapped. Tips Step back to avoid crowding them or appearing...
Have a Plan for Safety
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Ensures your safety while maintaining focus on de-escalation. Tips If aggression continues, be prepared to call for help or...
Stay Calm and Composed
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Your calm demeanor can reduce their heightened emotions. Tips Speak slowly and avoid reacting emotionally to their...
Use a Low, Steady Voice
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Signals control and help regulate their emotional state. Tips Speak softly and evenly to avoid escalating their aggression...
Use Short, Clear Instructions
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Provides simple guidance without overwhelming them. Tips Say, 'Let's take a deep breath together,' rather than giving...
Watch for Signs of Escalation
Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Helps you assess when further action or safety measures are needed. Tips Look for clenched fists, yelling, or physical...
