Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques

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Avoid using Breaks as Punishment

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Prevents resentment and encourages positive associations by taking time-outs. Tips Frame the break as a tool for calming...

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Encourage Stepping Away Briefly

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Physically removing oneself from the environment helps lower stress levels. Tips Suggest moving to another room or outside...

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End the Break with a Positive Tone

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Reinforces the idea that breaks help with constructive communication. Tips Resume the conversation by saying, 'Thank you...

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Model the Break Behavior

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Shows them that taking breaks is a healthy way to manage emotions. Tips Say, 'I'm going to take a moment to calm down, and...

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Offer Water or a Snack

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Physiological needs like hydration can have a calming effect. Tips Suggest, 'Would you like a glass of water while we take...

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Provide a Calming Activity

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Engages their hands and mind, helping to reduce emotional intensity. Tips Offer coloring, writing, or even squeezing a...

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Suggest a Short Break

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Gives both parties time to reset and approach the issue with a clearer mind. Tips Say, 'Let's take 5 minutes to calm down and...

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Suggest Deep Breathing Exercises

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Slows the heart rate and reduces physical signs of stress. Tips Lead with, 'Let's try breathing together to calm...

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Use a Safe Phrase for a Pause

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Creates a neutral way to de-escalate without blaming anyone. Tips Agree on a non-confrontational cue like 'Let's hit the...

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Use a Timer for Breaks

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Ensures their hands and mind, helping to reduce emotional intensity. Tips Set a timer for 3-5 minutes and agree to revisit...

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