Behavioral Guides

Avoid Mirroring Anger

Activities: Managing Personal Emotions Neutral tones defuse tension and signal a lack of threat. Tips If the other person raises their voice or shows aggression, respond...

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Avoid Overscheduling

Scheduled breaks prevent students from feeling rushed or overwhelmed. Tip: Include breaks between activities to give students downtime.

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Avoid Overwhelming Choices

Activities: Offering Choices to Empower Simplifies decision-making and avoids increasing stress. Tips Limit options to 2-3 simple choices to prevent decision...

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Avoid Physical Touch

Activities: Dealing with Aggressive Behavior Prevents further escalation or misunderstanding of intentions. Tips Do not touch them unless absolutely necessary and...

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Avoid Sudden Movements

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment Sudden movements can escalate anxiety or defensive behavior. Tips Move slowly and deliberately to prevent triggering further...

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Avoid Ultimatums

Activities: Setting Boundaries Respectfully Encourages cooperation rather than resistance. Tips Replace 'if you don't stop, I'll leave,' with, 'Let's take a moment to...

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Avoid using Breaks as Punishment

Activities: Time-Out and Cool-Down Techniques Prevents resentment and encourages positive associations by taking time-outs. Tips Frame the break as a tool for calming...

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Be Firm but Kind

Activities: Setting Boundaries Respectfully Maintains control of the situation while showing empathy. Tips Assert your boundary without aggression: 'I'm here to help,...

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Be Open to their Suggestions

Activities: Collaborative Problem-Solving Encourages collaboration and builds trust. Tips Validate their input: 'That's an interesting idea; let's explore it.'

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Be Patient

Activities: Active Listening Strategies Demonstrates respect for their emotional state and encourages thoughtful communication. Tips Allow silence if they need time to...

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Brainstorm Solutions

Activities: Collaborative Problem-Solving Encourages creativity and participation in resolving the conflict. Tips Ask, 'What ideas do you have to fix this?'

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