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Validate their Feelings

Activities: Active Listening Strategies Helps them feel understood and reduces emotional intensity. Tips Say things like, 'It's okay to feel upset; let's work through...

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Ask Open-Ended Questions

Activities: Active Listening Strategies Encourages them to share more information and feel heard. Tips Use questions like, 'Can you tell me more about what's upsetting...

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Avoid Interrupting

Activities: Active Listening Strategies Encourages open communication and prevents escalation. Tips Let them finish speaking, even if you feel the need to correct or...

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Use Reflective Statements

Activities: Active Listening Strategies Shows you understand their emotions and helps clarify their feelings. Tips Paraphrase their words back to them: 'So you're feeling...

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Have Support Nearby if Needed

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment Having backup ensures safety while maintaining the focus on de-escalation. Tips Discreetly signal for additional help if the...

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Allow Them to Sit or Move

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment Physical adjustments can lower adrenaline levels and promote calmness. Tips Encourage the person to sit down or pace, if it...

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Use Open Body Language

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment Non-verbal cues of openness reduce perceived threats. Tips Keep arms relaxed, palms visible, and posture upright to convey...

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Avoid Sudden Movements

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment Sudden movements can escalate anxiety or defensive behavior. Tips Move slowly and deliberately to prevent triggering further...

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Speak Softly

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment Signals calmness and encourages de-escalation through mirroring. Tips Keep your voice gentle and measured, even if the other...

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Reduce Environmental Stressors

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment A calming environment helps reduce sensory overload and stress. Tips Lower noise levels, dim harsh lighting, and minimize...

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Ensure a Clear Path

Activities: Creating a Safe Environment Gives both parties a sense of control and security. Tips Avoid blocking doors or exits to prevent feelings of...

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